Friday, February 18, 2011

Advice Regarding Relationships: Learning To Balance Romance And Friendship

By William M. Sosa


For people who have friends that are in a relationship, it can sometimes become very awkward seeing people in pairs. But, things become very awkward when they become one person or that you have just been eliminated from their daily rituals. It all boils down to respect and understanding which is why reading the article below can put some perspective into your senses.

Couples usually think alike which is one of the reasons why they have this sort of unspoken understanding to each other. But, when they begin to morph into a single person. It is that time that you should try to ask your friend how it happened. Couples who begin to act as one person is most likely dependent on the other which can be a bad thing.

The next time you bring your girlfriend with you on your friend's Sunday barbecue do try to tell her that it is for your friends only and put an emphasis on friends only. The moment someone new comes friends easily become defensive and protective and that can easily put a wrench on the whole friendship.

Couples love to be intimate with each other but sometimes they do it right in front of friends who think they are comfortable showing their intimacy at. Friends can only take too much especially if you have single friends out there. Take the intimacy to the bedroom and not in front of your friends.

It might come off as funny but when you are in a group of friends and one of them brings their partner, you all want to move fast but when that happens, those two will begin to walk slowly and really walk slowly that others begin to complain whether or not they can still beat the ticking clock.

Another irksome thing that couples do to you is when they want you to get into a relationship like they have. It can be a friendly gesture for them but if you do not want to be in a relationship right now and they keep on pressuring you, you can easily stomp them by showing how much you love being single.

Ever had that group conversation where your friends are on the couch and a friend of yours is talking to his girlfriend and they giggle with their own little joke that nobody finds funny except it is a bit annoying? Add that to this list.

When your best bud becomes tied down to the girl of his dreams, expect to disappear from his desk or his weekly football practice at the field. Most of the time, people who are bound to a relationship will have problems with their schedule and your friendship simply drifts away.




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