Saturday, February 26, 2011

Tips To Avoid Clash With Difficult Personalities

By Traci R. Lee


Maybe you have noticed people who tend to be very hard to deal with without them giving any thought to it. Generally they are labeled as bullies and such people are to be found all over the place including the office.

It is not once or twice that you have been confronted by people who are outright uncivil that they cannot interact with respect for others. They make the temperatures around to rise unnecessarily but you are forced to bear it all. It takes more than just lowering your head and swallowing it all without any retaliation.

Basically there are people who will take this type of behavior very unkindly and would take drastic measures; so it is up to an individual to decide how to react to the situation.

It may seem a very difficult thing to do but once you can initiate the move, it will progress very well - simply smile. Notice that you are not required to bare your teeth like a predator, please give a genuine smile with your mind directed towards something good you may see in them. You might just see them reciprocating.

Even if you expect to be rewarded afterwards, but just know that these people are not villains at all. Underneath that facade of toughness rudeness, they are normal and humane.

You might turn out to be one in a million when you seek to make a difference in this world. Do not do what everyone else would do, choose to be different by showing him love instead of hatred like the others would be tempted to.

His behavior could be running against the norm but still nobody out there really knows what is going on inside these people's heads. Several issues may come to mind - insecurity, naivety, arrogance, nervousness and so forth. It means the man may be having some tough underlying problems to deal with.

After getting behind the matter, you will be shocked to discover that the guy is just a normal person but is undergoing lots of psychological stress. Choose to show him love and make a difference .




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