Thursday, February 10, 2011

Having Fun Joining Parties

By Mary R. Cordes


We all want to be known all over the place as someone who enjoys parties and someone who is always invited to parties. This ultimately tells others that you are friendly and that you have great social skills. So, how do you get to become a social butterfly? Here are some tips on how to become one.

For you to have fun, you have to be fun. Put that smile on your face whenever you go to a party. Smiling makes everyone feel welcomed and people will flock to your side when you smile at them. If you do feel a bit worried, think about the time when you are happiest and you find yourself smiling again.

Although you might consider yourself as the life of the party but the true life of the party is the camera. A party becomes alive when flashes of lights appear and you get to capture moments that you will treasure together with your new found friends.

Get in the mood of having a good time and it will show. When you are having a good time with other people, they will be able to notice that and they will soon be beside you partying.

People like to have a friendly game with each other especially men who are very competitive. If you can, challenge on person at the party for some beer pong or any other games you can think of to liven up the party and raise your hierarchy at the social status.

Be the listener and not the talker. When you are infront of people talking, make sure that you listen to them once in a while as they can become fed up with you if you keep on talking and not minding what they say.

Make friends online. The internet is the best place to make new friends and gather them together. Social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter are the best breeding ground for new friends.

And if going online is not your thing, you can always hit the bars or some places where people usually flock and share a drink with them. The more you do this the more you will be able to know different kinds of people.




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