Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Ways To Heal A Broken Friendship

By Ninfa W. Romero


When a friendship is broken, it is sometimes very hard to fix knowing that you have hurt the person you trust the most. The deeper the friendship has become the harder it becomes to solidify it back again. Here are some ways for you to reconciliate with your friend.

Approach your friend and deliver a sincere sorry to him. There is nothing wrong with saying a sincere apology to someone that you really trust and have been a friend of yours for a long time.

Take the time to have your friend over and speak to him about your worries as to why you had a fight with him. There are surely reasons why both of you were in a dire position of mistrust. Speak your side of the story and clarify the other part to him.

And while you are doing that, make sure that you are listening to what the other person is saying. Give your friend a chance to say his piece and weigh in on what really happened.

Always think before you speak and never let your angry emotions run wild when you two have a conversation. It will spark another conflict between the two of you and make matters worse. Never let anger get the best out of the two of you.

After a big comeback with your friend, it is never easy to do the things that both of you enjoyed. There might be some awkward moments between the two of you so it is better that you take it slow but steady.

Give your friend the time and space to think about what happened and see if he comes into his senses when the dusts have settled. People's hearts are sure to melt when they realize that they have hurt their friends.

The guide above will surely help you regain your friend back to your warm embraces. Make sure that you follow the steps and have utmost sincerity when you approach your friend.




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